1.Must be identify standing on its own.
2.Has a meaning according to what you do for others.
3.Is independent while able to recognize other actors taking a part in it.
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Each one of you has your unique life story that you are going through. You are the main actor in your life story, and you can never change that. In your story there are other actors that only has a role to fulfill, only to assist on supporting you as the main character. Some at the beginning will be more active, like your parents. Some actors are showing up because of special events that only serves to shape you as the main character. Some actors will come to find the opportunity for moving you away from your ability to write your life story.Knowing your place as the main actor, and being able to recognize between each of the actors what role each one holds, you are able to welcome those that you understand that has only the full intention to assist you as the main character. It will be helpful to identify those that only serves the opposite. For them, it is in your hand to make sure that their role will stay just enough and not to prevent you from telling your story. For example learning to identify controlling people, which for sometime took the feather pen from your writing hand, yet now you must reclaim the ink to be the one who writes, as the main character.In the event that someone took from you the ability to control and lead your life story, it is still in your hand how you would like to change that. However, If you allow this outside condition to continue, then you will still be the main actor in your life story, but as the main actor you in the hand of others that telling your story. If you realize and have been able to take back control of your story, you are the one who will write the next chapter.
Other people, actors, who participate in your story, they have only a role to play, just as you have a certain role to play in other people story. Understanding this level of relationships help you to see clearly what you must do so the other actors will understand their role better, so they will be able to support you in your story.You are the master of your life story, and like so, you can give some actors more important role in your life story. In the same way as you invite others to take part in your story, you are actually becoming an actor that has a role in their story. You are the main actor and the master of your story only, and you meet other masters that you respectfully for them only have a part, playing a role, no more than that.In every story there are 2 significant parts: the main plot which is the essence of your story, and the supporting side stories. You must remember to stay on course of your main story, while identifying for yourself clarify, the meaning, reason, for the supporting side stories. Be aware not to stuck yourself in one of your side story, as it only delay the development and the continuation of your story. Remember to mark the lessons, instead of living life lessons behind, as those lessons in retrospect help you to see beyond as well as an aspect of the bigger picture that your story represents.As you treasure your life story, as you hold space for others to live, connect and explore their stories, I promise you that there will be an additional page by those after you, to tell : what a gift was your life story, a story that others will treasures.