Posted August 15, 2021
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1.Many friends you try to have.
2.Need to be the center of attention.
3.You live your life with full acceptance in the present moment.
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Each one in their nature is a person that seeks to be connected with other people which can be consider as friends. However, the amount of people you surround yourself with doesn’t mean that the connection has its pure meaning, and if your focus on how you can make others to notice you, only take you from the connection with your pure Heart and who you truly are.
Starting point is with your own self at the place that you call home. Pay attention to the difference between living in a house to having a place that is you can call home, where you can find your peace, equanimity, serenity, composure, be connected. Being at home to enjoy any activity you can have like reading, listen to music, cooking, cleaning, craft work, and not feeling the urge to be outside with others. Content to be connected with your pure self.
When you start to connect with others, one important act for your benefit is avoiding gossip in any level, even if that mean to cut off those whom you know that their personal behavior is to share conversation about others. You care to engage in company with other people not because of how much money they have, the car they drive, the big job they hold, but because those people have a good Heart and they also looking for the good in others. Your personal value doesn’t come by how many people you surround yourself with, but the good actions that you care to take with those that are part of your life in a positive effect and create a healing space that let you feel it within yourself. You value the moments that you share with those that are part of your life, instead of always looking for others just because they are more popular. Along with that, your identity doesn’t drive from the big crowd that you think to have but from the depth of connections that allow vulnerability as well as mountain of expression without judgment or guilt. When you are around people you don’t act or put an image of someone else just to be accepted by others. You know how to face difficult relationship instead of running away from the invitation of correction or to understand that it is better to open the music box of goodbye, and with that the melody of letting go without fear of feeling alone or neglected. Moving forward with forgiveness from your Heart, doesn’t mean you have to stick with those that don’t share your values. You know to express yourself in a way that you mean what you say and you stand and do what you say, so like that you allow your words and actions to sprout deeper and establishing true long friendship.
Presenting yourself from an honest place will invite a healthy circle of friends that only will empower you to grow. When you are with someone you are totally engage in what you two shares at this present moment and you don’t think about someone else or about the other things that you need or can do. Your goal is to tune within your inner light and to share to all kindness warmth, unconditional love, while living your life as best as you can to the fullest while accepting your present moment, and from that place sharing with those specific valuable people like rare flowers in the wilderness facing the world events. More so, you don’t want to label yourself by those people you have, let the future wind to explore who you were meant for others.