1.Holding strong control with a refuse for a change.
2.Not willing to check other opportunities / possibilities that life offers.
3.Strong personality.
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In every culture we see how people like to collect different things because of various reasons. As people collect items it become part of their identity in some way, and one cannot separate themselves from those items. Equally people collect experiences that turn in to memories, which has within them emotions, feelings, or other energetic connection. While there are certain things that are deserve to hold space in someone life in symmetry of the physical item, as well as the positive energy that its hold, there are things which only limit someone life space. A person can be so attach to certain personal life events because of how difficult, or un easy, even traumatic was the event impacting on them, and therefore keeping that person stay with the outcome without seeking or realizing that they are only limiting themselves, limiting their life opportunities or life possibilities.
When a person has the choice on how they can control their way on dealing with some hard life events, it will result at the quality of that person life. When someone hold a strong position and refuse to change or insist to stare into a past event which put them down, defeated them or changed their life course in unhealthy way, for that person there is less connection with their own identity and rather letting the impact from the event reshape a new false identity. Living like that prevent one from realizing if they are moving on or going down, upwards or downwards with their life, a standing point in their life spiral stairs with no way out. Indeed, there are life events that there will be no return, or the process of healing and recovery can no longer be measured by a certain time, but with slow progress. For most of us, there is always a space for healing and with the belief that a better level of life can be experience moving on.
After someone was able to restore their life to be more in the present and no longer living in the past, it is the continues work of keeping that present living in the present. Like that the path for life possibilities become reality. Just like someone choose to hold on to what not supporting their life, that someone has always the door open for choosing the opposite way, the path towards something that will let them find their happiness, their freedom, their own self identity, the voice that was waiting to speak up from within their Heart, only to create a positive dialog that provide hope, change and transformation that will have no trace behind.
Life is a continuation of changes that allow each one to grow and to move on. When a person accept and understand that a change can be only if they take actions to do so, that acknowledgement will lead to start the process of letting go. In every step of each one life there is always the need for letting go. With the understanding for change, letting go is essential for the change to truly happen. Therefore, if someone is not willing to let go, they are not ready to move on or change. The choice is always there and for each one there is a better way.
