1.Reflect as a mirror on how you treat yourself.
2.Will make them treat you like so.
3.Build lots of relationships for you.
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Each one of you has the circle people that you consider as your friends, and you care for them in your own way, speak with them in certain way, and take the time to enjoy and create memories. The way you treat your friends can tell a lot about how you treat and care for your self. Your behavior towards your friends, how you think about them, how you feel about them, how you feel around them, what do they really mean to you, what are you willing to do for them, or with them, all those things has also something to reflect on how you treat yourself.
The important thing between friends is kindness. Kindness between friends in unconditionally and it is the basic foundation between friends. If you don’t offer kindness to your friends, something has to change. Never take any of your friends for granted or as a fact that you have already gain them into your life. That level of the way you practice your kindness to your friends, tells how kind you are with yourself. Your friends represent the world that you have built to yourself by each and every one of the type of friends that you have. That world let you grow accordingly from within out because of the influence you gain from them into your world.
By honoring each of your friends, you also honor yourself because you have a deeper appreciation for each of your friends. To honor is to accept each of your friends as they are, not complete simply as you aware that you are too, and that there is something that only complete you both when you are providing each one the pure friendship knowing to honor that inner light each one gives.
Having the good intention to learn every day something about your friends from a good place, keep you requesting yourself to learn for something regarding you that you were not aware, or have not noticed about yourself. Like that, each one will be able to embrace each other growth life changing, hopefully for the good. To learn something about your friends means from different aspect, something regarding an emotion that is so identify with your friend, or a reason for practicing something which is has meaning for your friend. The more you ask yourself to open your eyes with care to learn about your friend, you also go within yourself to understand yourself in compression to your friend from a place of equality and the ability to share what you both offer each other in this friendship.
If you hold some negative feeling regarding any of your friends, it is defiantly time to clear your Heart and to find forgiveness. If you cannot forgive someone that you called a friend, then how will you be able to forgive yourself in times that you were wrong with yourself.
Avoid from labeling your friend according to one point of view, or as a result of your first impression. You don’t want that others will do the same to you, or you don’t want to hold a specific definition of who you are. Life is a continuous changings and you don’t want to stop changing, evolving or learning to avoid your new self. You want that your friend life will be a life of growth spiritually, mentally and emotionally, and in the same way you motivate yourself to do the same in those aspects of your life.
Pay attention to how you are listening to your friends when they speak, whether it is regarding themselves or something else. On the same way, this is how you are listening to your inner voice, listening to your Heart.
Your love to your friends is something that always need to be cherish. This is unconditional love to is always giving between friends. Like that you also keep the self-love to yourself to be true and with alignment to how you feel with others.
The best friend that you will have, and the first friend that you will always have is you. Making sure to care for the friends that you have, will keep you also able to care for yourself and coming closer with your self-love, self-worth, self-esteem, closer to know your true-self with out any masks, any shields but with full acceptance for who you are. Like that, you become in a deeper meaning something that is belong to the fabric of humanity.