1.Protect you.
2.Light their wrong doing.
3.Keep you superior.
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One of the characters which each one need to recognize, to face, to handle and to change is the personal pattern of judgmental behavior. There can be 10 people in one room looking at one picture and yet you can find 10 different point of views simply because of each one background, perceptions, knowledge or observation. All this is the same when one can look on someone else actions and with the lack of the flexibility which each of those tools provide, can find themselves using a very narrow and wrong judgmental behavior that can lead to keep both side apart, instead of having the opportunity to learn from each one, or at least to come and share an acceptance of each other.
When you rush to judge someone so quickly, that should be a red sign for what you need to face within yourself and to find the way how to change this un healthy habit which only keep you with more bitterness towards other people. A judgment behavior gives you a clear view for what you are avoiding within yourself to change or remove, and keeping this in mind will provide you the many possibilities to go to your Heart center and to see what is it that needed to be removed from your Heart so it will be cleanse and pure to act with good intentions in any situation, no matter how un comfortable that situation will be for you, but it will be more strong to handle, as you will not contaminate your Heart with new levels of negative emotions, feelings or thoughts. When understanding that there is no place for judgmental behavior to be used towards others, then the ability to see the qualities as well as the differences as something unique, or as something that can be clear that is simply not part of the world that you lead your life with. After all, you don’t know the whole picture of that other person life until you walk in their shoes to understand from their eyes how they look at the world, or what truly they have been facing with or challenging by.
When the attention can be provide from a pure clear Heart center without any self reflections on the observer, then the room for understanding the other, the space for forgiveness, the void of hate or anger, the shock out of fear or distress, all that will be eliminated, as you will find your stable pure Heart center providing you a sense of security for the values you know about yourself and how you can match or find them in place while comparing yourself to the other, instead of judging. Like that you prevent your ego to take over or to take control of your innocent Heart that care to share in an equal way what human nature can find connecting. When you keep activating your pure Heart center to guide you to see the inner light of the other person, then when you come to an intersection that one way show you the direction for a judgmental behavior, when in moments of judgment only a judgment call will be used to care to create a bridge of unity that will open the path for the other person and to see how still you can provide healthy communication regardless the differences or barriers that exist between both sides.