1.Brings two into a complex journey.
2.Hold an Objective truth.
3.Provide too much work.
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For every type of relationships there are many levels for those that involve to face together, otherwise it is simply far from real and not providing the ultimate goal that both can gain which is a sense of happiness within the connection that is waiting to grow. Those levels only can bring each one closer, or to face the break up. In the beginning of any relationship each one brings their own personal perspective, personal reflection over the other side, only to learn for themselves if that individual can fit within the personal agenda that one holds, or if there is a place for you to learn and welcome something new that will allow the connection to grow. While it is done automatically base on expectations, life experiences, culture, society and other relevant elements in each specific relationship, it is been compare with your own personal truth that you have and providing healthy ties to that truth. Your personal truth meeting the other person personal truth. Soon, both starting to share a mutual perspective together as one while adding to their labyrinth journey more ways to strengthen the connection, and maybe challenging all odds against their survivor together. To come and to value all the levels of the other personality in any way it is, while maintaining to stay and stand by in any event that can be, can be challenging in certain times.
For someone to make a decision if it’s time to leave a relationship or to let go of the other, is never a simple or easy thing to do. To try to make it better and to face the obstacles both are facing require both sides to make the effort. At times one is doing the work while the other is holding the space and waiting, and then the other way around. At times both are making the changes that can help them hold to each other. However, after trying to resolve any differences or any challenges without any solution, it might be that both have reach an end point in this labyrinth journey. After all, there was from the beginning also an objective truth with an objective perspective which maybe both sides avoided accepting or tried to go around them. This Objective Truth stand above both sides personal truth. Those objective facts can stand on their own throughout the course of time without the needs to prove them as right or wrong, but to accept them and to recognize them, instead of keep avoiding the obvious truth. By now, each one holds many personal values of the other, involving with emotional attachment, know better about the other, holding less will to create the way for solution, carrying more baggages within the Heart. This resolution of separation, breakup or going apart is not something simple to decide, especially when one have the difficulty to let go. In some ways you put your own self doubts which only add to your inner pain. Sometimes you don’t realize how much you have allowed the other person to control your emotions, feelings and behavior, while avoiding your own personal healthy needs and maintaining to be grounded and connected to your true Heart feelings.
Coming to a point of facing not what you want, rather what is right for both to do and healthy as well, is not easy to realize to identify or to accept. It is at this moment when you need to analyze everything that is in front of you, and maybe reach for an objective person to help you see and to understand what is the best solution that need to happen while facing the objective truth. This personal awareness come with your personal will to come to terms and full acceptance how to invoke the objective truth into your relationship. Once you decide to find resolution and to resolve this personal matter after putting all the objective facts together and putting the emotions aside, then you can see how you can act and not react in order to do what is right for both, while approaching the solution with an open Heart and not just with open mind, only to see the 2 ways opening in the labyrinth relationship journey. The choice is always yours.