The big sound of someone Trauma (Choose yours):

Trauma can be different kind of personal experiences that can happen for any individual or for a group of people together, but as each one experience this kind of hard and difficult event, the personal interpretation is also very particular and can be subjective to how each individual collect the event. Trauma doesn’t has to be something very dark, negative or horrifying, but it can be something that the body or the human being cannot handle or wasn’t expected to experience at all and the result leave that individual with some type of recovery. Usually by someone behavior there is the reflection of that type of pain which can be physical, emotional and also mental in most of the times. Not doing what its take to face and to handle this event in life only hold some baggage’s that with time will grow up and that individual might forget about the source but the scare from that event will create some patterns that later the personal work to go back to the source will only become a harder work. Trying to cover or hiding or avoid facing, only will result with longer pain that should not be as each beautiful life. Pay attention to the waves of the Heart beating drums as they send circles through the body.
The depth of one person trauma can be for that person a heavy and so far from any classic event that can be retold, express again or shared and the personal suffering only block away the space for pure deep healing. Therefore, providing the space and creating the liberty for that individual to make the voice or to eco by silence which is recognized by the others who hear that silence and understanding just enough how loud and long is that silence has the place among those that can open their arms and provide the support, any support, even if it is just to be for and with that individual without any words to say. A silence is like the waves of an oil paintings, which as you look through the direction of the oil lines and the depths, able to see its reflection that it comes to your heart with the full amount of the hard difficult expression that invoke suddenly in front of you. Care by not the urge for the knowing, only with the urgency to give a shoulder, to offer a hand, to show a comforting smile, to hold the hand, to support the other shoulder. From one eye to open up through the other person eye to the heart as a chaperone for the wounded heart.