1.Is against your will for direction.
2.Has its own cause for each one.
3.A big happy noise.
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Family connections and family relationships for each one of us is like a sail on a ship which move by the current waves under the ship, and the speed of the wind that pushes the different sails of the ship. This is a journey that even at some point you have no clue or any understanding why are you part of this group voyage and how you are better off to jump to the water and swim to a safe shore by yourself. This was an important decision, which you were able to make while knowing the true value of it source way way back, but as you grow up into this family you neglected the memory of your self observation to remember that it was your choice to join the family which you are part of and the learning lessons that you can collect. The sooner that you will be understanding that, accepting that, bring it into your self-awareness, then the burden is remove from you, from trying to sail against the current, but to belong. This choice has its own unique reason which collect together a vibrations of multiple energies that for each part of the family members has its own unique part and responsibility. Pursuing to maintain that connection is a major key in how that will influence your life. While you were created by love it is your unconditional love that can help with the direction. This connection in each family structure provide the specific phases, which can seems to be as obstacles of challenges or can be just as a moment of big wave or a rock that you need to know how to maneuver the way around it, or to understand how to take together a different turn. You are not a part of your family but you are part of your family and in the collective variations of each one, there is a good reason for you. Beside the form of living our life in this body, each one carry other elements which are more sustainable beyond what the eye can see. Those elements for each one in the family is something that is exist in a very long period of traveling journey, or if you want , in a very long time which is not limited to your life now or the other members, but as an ecologic system which the biologic diversity that it hold, can keep going for generations. By learning how to maintain and to manage yourself, you are able to provide support and stability to the family environment and help with the management of the family no matter what is your roll in the family. Your personal awareness only help to conserve the healthy reason for the family to move together with unconditional love, through waves of forgiveness, compassion, loving-kindness and support. The physical reality turning to be more solid and reliable without the need to depend on, or the need to break apart. Remember to know that your personal awareness can help with the growth and the development of the family while preserving the stability to reach to a safe shore. Like that, you are able to provide the cause your connection up until it will be your time to take charge and to lead your life in a parallel reason with the cause of your family.