1.As fast as possible.
2.In the way that those that with him acting.
3.For each one there is its own personal way.
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To mourn, to grief, to recover from a lost of someone that is dear to the heart, that has a special meaning, that hold together so many memories, so many experiences, so much love, and with all that there comes a time that someone so true to your life has past. Each one of us going through this hard experience throughout your life and for each one there is a way to deal and handle this significant emotional event. It can be very personal, it can be important, and it require its unique attention, in order to be able to process the change that is taking over. There are those who tend to express their emotions and those who know how to put those heavy emotions aside and less to face them. Some can come to an understanding with the lost of a loved one, and for others it is difficult to even accept what just happen. Personal awareness knowing how you tend to approach this subject gives you the ability to express yourself better during your personal healing.
There is no one kind of feeling system that you can use, as the emotions that are rising can move from sad to anger, crying to nothing, talkative or simply quiet, a reason to judge or a reason to criticize. A broken heart due to a lost can run sometimes in a very unreasonable levels of emotions, which all are part of how that individual is feeling inside. Each one use what at this moment they feel to express, and as long as they try to face and to deal with their heavy emotions, they are helping themselves to make the first steps to heal from the lost of a loved one. The personal experience from a lost of a loved one can lead to a very dark path and can cause an effect on the person life due to the emotional suffering that taking over. The process of grieving sometimes seek the individual to surrender to a personal pain, and all that is left is to let yourself go there, to face what there is deep within your Heart as value. as kind towards that who moved on from the life hear on earth.
In this personal difficult time for the one that need to grief, need to be some kind of anchor, something to lean on, to be supportive by, so like that it can help to remind and to maintain connection with the reality of life, and not just forgetting your whole self. With the process of grieving it is not just one process that need to be done, it can be that after sometime feeling recover, the grieving will strike again and will ask for the attention. During the time of facing those heavy emotions, one need to be also kind with themselves, instead of loosing the purpose of what they are facing. To find the way to accept someone lost and to find the words to be able to let go, only can be revel and can be identify when you let your deeper emotions to come to the surface, so it can start and create the clear vision for you, in how well it will be for you to come to some level of understanding, some closer, and providing words of farewell.
Healing can be with the use of prayers or can be through silence and awareness with some level of acceptance. As long as we find guldens with hope and memories, as long as we remember to take the beautiful values and good stories from the connection with the one that was lost, for each one there will be an understanding about what the deceased would appreciate to carry with us, and to implement those personal lessons from the connection you two share into your life, so like that there is a way to allow the energy and the feeling of that loved one, to still be living and not be forgotten.