1.Happen when you want to give.
2.happen when you give what you want.
3.Starts when you understand what the other truly needs.
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For each one in our life, there are those who seeks more then just our attention, and our true independent support for them can create a better foundation of connection, and a place to trust each other with no borders or any boundaries. The possibilities of the one who gives can be supportive not just for the receiver, but also for the one that gives. Only when there is a pure Heart intention to give, without any wrong expectations, or some conditions that must be met by the giver, or must happen as a follow up, the result for the receiver can be meaningful and healing. When you find yourself caring for someone else, or desire to provide that person unconditional Love, your intention should point out to you the place and the reality of that other one, so you can have an understanding about their reality, which can be different from your reality, and as a result will provide you with a good meaning for the care and the love that you can provide them with.
To open yourself to know what is the other person you care for going through, open for you a door to the person life and the conditions that this person going through in their life. Like that, you are able to guide yourself to be willing to care and to give unconditionally, and that is the meaning of true giving of care and unconditional love. When you have this realization, understanding and better knowing what fully going on in that individual life, you can understand what this other person truly needs, and you don’t limit your personal will to care and love base on your point of view, but base on what you come find out after placing yourself in this person place, even for a moment, without any explanations, from an objective point of view able to see through that person eyes their livelihood. This provide you with the helpful way to stay connected with that person, and later that person will only remember you for how good you were helpful in time of needs.
Once you fully understand what the other person needs, it is now the question for you if you are ready and if you are willing to give that to that person, especially when it is from the place of care and unconditional love. Other forms of giving are always available, but to understand from which place the personal care and unconditional love need to happen, is to understand the place that the one you care for is standing. Like that you never put your personal ego in between you two, but open your pure Heart center for simply give, and not worry or stress yourself regarding what you will get back in return.
You should not involve your personal emotion feelings, or what your left brain try to tell you that this is the logic and the right thing to do. Once you made a decision with yourself to give some support to another person, that should be your only choice, and how or what that person needs, can not be your choice, but the solution for the conditions that this person is going under. Sometimes it can be that the only thing that the other person want from you is to just be there for them, just to listen for them without giving any words of advice, just be for the other care free and unconditionally with love for who they are.
The best giving act from each one to another is in the form of unconditional love and selfless care, without any inner hidden intentions, or gaining something back in return. For each one of us there is always that opportunity to be for someone else and to let them give us the opportunity to simply care with unconditional love for what they simply needs. Care to give with open Heart, as the abundant that you have will keep flow to your life and grow, the more your care to give, especially care to give your unconditional love. It is innocent and has solid deep roots for growth in both direction without each one knowing which direction it will take.