1.Are the walls to protect yourself.
2.Understanding your safe place.
3.Separate you from others.
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Each one of you must understand, know and be aware of your own boundaries so that you and those that are with you will honor that. Boundaries are not walls or distancing yourself from others, not limiting the connection that you share with yourself or others. Boundaries are those things which you are not comfortable to do, think, feel, spend money on, engage with, believe in, when connecting with someone. For example becoming violence in its all forms – you know how it can only damage you. After you recognize to yourself your boundaries, you should have them as a good tool of signs throughout the roads that you take in life. You will be able to communicate in a better way with everyone because of that, and to direct your life through those signs for your safety and stability. Sharing those boundaries with your partner, friends or others do not put you in a vulnerable place because you expose those sensitive personal territories, but it provide the environment to respect your life accordingly. The result from that by sharing your boundaries with others only create a positive relationship and when those boundaries are not respected by others, then you can let them know from a place of unconditional love that you hold, that they didn’t respect your boundaries and together you both can correct that in a good way. In the case that you are aware but someone that is with you is not aware, you have the bigger ability to first find forgiveness for that person, then to explain and give that individual the opportunity to correct their actions. For those that were not aware, you have the upper hand to be more tolerance and explain better yourself, instead of getting to a place of confrontation for no reason or any action that will influence the balance in your life. Knowing your boundaries let you to see your safe space and to be able to move with your life from a deeper balance and with no stress or fear, anxiety or bad surprise. This list of boundaries can change as you grow and move with your life. You might find that things which you see as boundary for now, later can be remove. For example when money is tight then you have a set of rules for spending. Those boundaries balancing the emotions from your Solar Plexus Chakra with the thoughts that your mind will drive to produce. Knowing your boundaries support your self-esteem and self-image because you are able to respect yourself and to guide yourself only toward taking better choices that will support that. To each one of us their own set of boundaries according to the background, the culture that you was raise, the outside influence, the self interpretation which you feel to lead your life by, your faith and other set of principals that are in your life. Boundaries should be identify at the level of your physical, mental, emotional, material, relationship and spiritual. Like that, your self-behavior will be with ease and self-love due to that list, and lead you to act from a place of knowing your essence and more sensitive to the people that are with you by not giving them the possibility of violating your boundaries.