1.Can never be healthy.
2.Guide you to have a new point of view.
3.Will bring bad memories.
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We all carry within ourselves memories of past events from our life. Events that took place during your childhood years provide you with memories that were base on the tools that you had as a child, and base on that you wrote as a child that memory and store it in you. Revisiting past events can be done now, as an adult with new perspective, new point of view. We all have memories that are with us for as long as each one can remember themselves. Some of those memories also has some influence of your personality, because of how you remember certain past events. Your experiences from your childhood which have left a certain mark on your emotional bag, or replaced one of your 4 heart rooms with a heavy emotional stone without any space to ease your heavy emotional burden as your life moved on and you had to adopt to your reality while still carrying this with you. Some memories also caused you to see your present life in a narrow limit way, because of the weight that has been left within you. Those significant memories, as heavy as they are, are still have a breathing living space in your day to day activities and in some way, not allowing you to share your authentic self as you would like to let yourself be express.
As I explained before, memories can be stored not only in the brain, but also all over your body in the emotional connection with that hard memory. Now, as an adult you are wiser and have a range of your personal life experiences, as an adult, which can help you to face memories that are not helping you to move on with your life. I am not telling you that you will look at those difficult memories and change them. I don’t want you to erase them, as this can never be done. As a child, young person, your outlook on life, and the method which you used to view your life, was with a very narrow and innocent way, and in some ways very naïve, simply because you were a child that didn’t had to worry or was asked to understand.
Some memories, now as an adult, you can look with a different perspective on those past events. You can review the memory in the same details as you always remember, but now with a healthier view on those past events you can reveal a new understanding that as a child it was not available for you. Now as an adult, you can find in some way, a better understanding for events as they happened. Now as an adult, you can also put yourself in the place of the one that you are holding some heavy emotions against. It is not that you will be asked to accept what have happened back then, but you will start to disconnect yourself from holding a negative energy from that past event for yourself or to those who were involved. Like so, you will be able to open yourself to seek forgiveness, for yourself as well as forgiveness for the ones who were part of that memory.
As an adult you have with you the opportunity to rediscover moments from your past, which you couldn’t let go of, and guide yourself with pure Heart consciousness to have a better understanding. That doesn’t mean that you will agree with the past event, but you can start to find closure that you never was able to have. Sometimes, the moment to let go can happen when you understand that certain things from your past needs to be released from you. Memories have their own ticking time, and when they comes to the surface, it comes because of something that reflect on your present life.
Some memories, no matter from which angle you will revisit them, no matter from any point of view that you will look at, the result will stay the same because of what those memories are standing in, and no different outlook can be or make a difference. However, giving the chance to revisit those memories now, with your life experiences, with your knowledge, with your fresh point of view, as an adult you can give yourself a place of peace that was prevented from you. Let yourself to learn in a safe way how to release certain chains from your past, and open more ways for your personal growth.
