Unexpected life events that shake your balance, are (Choose yours):

Each one life is a big puzzle picture which each piece is an aspect of your life. When your life puzzle pieces are in balance, in order and in alignment with your life goals, you can seal some life chapters with a life picture that will welcome you later in memory lane. However, when unexpectedly some pieces go out of your way, reshaping your life to a different uncomfortable place, taking you out of balance, then it’s hard to complete the picture at that moment in that specific life chapter. When those unexpected events take turns, it is not about what happened, rather how you are moving out from that and back to and with your life course. For the most of things, everything is in your hands to make a change and to take control on your life path.

 

Unexpected life events can happen to each one in relationship, at work, while outside experiencing life, or even when you do your best to avoid life. Some of those unexpected events are as a direct result from your actions, while some are outside of your control and can be as an affect from someone else actions that will affect your life course, some by what you unknowingly manifest into your life, some by your monkey brain, or by what the universe see that you are ready to face the challenge. For every action there is a reaction, for every cause there is an effect, for every reason there is circumstantial. Life experiences are not just the road of milk and honey that we enjoy, but also the growth through challenges as we climb our personal life mountain.

 

Any unexpected life event will transform your life, will change the direction of your life, will take you on a path that was not on your schedule or your “to do” list, will force you to break your life pattern, will put you into some uncomfortable places, leave you completely complicated or even lost, will force you to face chaos under a storm that you never seen. All those are what will remove you out of your center, so it is up to you to re center yourself. No matter how long it took to impact your life in a negative way, it is more important and essential to notice how fast can you bring yourself back with your own life center. The longer you wait, the longer you let that event to control you and losing in the process your self-control. The sooner that you will be able to regain back yourself, the better off that you will be, even if the unexpected issue has not resolve yet. Here it is prominent to establish a deeper, healthier structure within your Root Chakra Energy, for it is what will have your foundation balance and will provide you with the safety, security and stability for what you will need to face and correct. From here on it will nourish each part that was affect as well, but it will come from that place of your secure self-center that is well grounded and so aware about your self-worth.

 

When you are able to remember that regardless the chaos your life is at, it is within you the choice for having it too, or protecting yourself to stay balance and content. Here is the communication between your Root Chakra and your Heart Chakra, while the first is grounded, the second one is kind to yourself and compassion to your life events and able to hold space for others that you are with. This is where you are able to maintain or restore your calmness whether the storm is still going or due to some unreasonable person who enter and shake your life. The main part here is your self-awareness to heal yourself, to take back control, to evaluate from a clear place what you know that you need to do.

 

Regardless who’s fault it is. It is always in your hands to put yourself back with your life, to claim back your inner-peace, to regain back self-control, to establish a vibrant self-love instead of self-criticism which only guard your emotions to be on your support, understanding how you are the only one who is responsible to your life while others depends on you, able to grow from your strong self-center while spreading your branches to support others, seeing your personal growth through your life lessons, bringing your self from inner-peace to a place of stillness in silence while the storm still on, balancing your life path by the right choices, and remembering to practice compassion and hope.

 

 

Choose yourself first, so you can be a valuable choice for others to assist, learn from, guide by or find comfort and support.