After facing unwanted result in your life, you should (Choose yours):

When things in your life taking an expected turn which is less than what you hope or planed, for most of us it comes with a certain reaction. After all, you have been surprised, you weren’t expecting or been very disappointed. Due to the fact that your personal expectation haven’t met, in most of the time you better zoom out and look at the big picture. It comes with an immediate reaction and other steps. The reaction can be very much understandable, however it’s important to shift yourself from reacting to the situation to responding to it, which only can happen from your responsibility and your duty to correct or to understand what is needed.

 

One main thing to pay attention: how long do you give the attention, the energy to the unexpected low result? Usually when things goes well, as we plan, it motivate us to continue with what we are doing and continue the process into a longer distance. By then, the achievement you had before, is no longer part of your present. The question is how long do you hold within towards those events that pull you backwards? The longer that you stay in a level of disappointment, you keep attracting low level of energy into your life and the recovery will only be longer. With any move forward you take in life, it needs to come while you care to first understand how you are at this present moment, what is missing out in order to gain back your full abilities to fulfill the potential of your goals.

 

Growth can come when you nourish the ground you are at, to have strong foundation to protect yourself in all times. A moment that took you to undesirable path, can shift back with a new moment which you learn and handle forwards. The sooner that you recover from the situation is also by understanding what led to this moment, and therefore, what is needed to recover in a healthy way that will provide you with better results. Like that, you are able to calculate better your next moves, to reach out for assistance that you missed on having, For each one there is a network of good people, as well as expanding your network or gaining new qualities that can provide you with more knowledge. Like that, you are taking the time to nourish the neglected dry land territory in your life, and bringing to life new garden that has a deeper meaning and connection with you. As long as you keep expanding your care for the situation environment from different aspects, you bringing much more sustainable nourishment for what you can achieve with a positive direction.

 

Essential key is your happiness. After all, if you faced a defeat, it comes with some unwanted emotions. Here it is the time to remind yourself, regardless this specific event what you still have, where you are at, your other life achievements, as well as past difficult events which you overcome and were able to shift your reality to a new and a better one. It is important that you will not hold yourself in a moment that simply belongs to the past, reminding yourself that that moment has past. Your happiness is not just a feeling or emotion, it is a vibration that send its frequency within you and outside to attract what is waiting for you. Its easy to see the good when things are going the way you want, and its important to find the good when things are opposite to what you wanted. This mindset of finding the good in each of your life event can be accomplish while you maintain your happiness as a healthy value that help your well-being. That happiness keeping the energy flows with much ease and will support you always.