The importance of seeing the difference in the other (Choose yours):

The point of view of how each one look on the other person provide the meaning for what can become between two individuals in a good or in a negative way. We are all different from each one, and on the same level we are all have come from the same place, breathing the same air. Because of each one outside vessel has its own shape, color, race, faith, culture, language and more, the immediate response invite for each other to understand why am I different from the other, and what that makes me? If we keep thinking from this outside perspective, we can never have the closeness with the other in any level. By collecting the list of what each one is different from the other, teach each one to keep distance, to feel the need to protect yourself from the other because of their package. It is only when the point of view is to learn of the similarity between you and the other, you open the door for a positive experience that will only has the potential to enrich both worlds. When each side is being guided to see the similarity on the other, it doesn’t mean that you should become like the other or abundant your roots and heritage, but to see the connections that together be create, base on the mutual things and the resemblance that exist between you and the other.

 

Any intention to look immediate on the differences is wrong at its core and must change to that positive mentality of what is the resemblance between two individuals that are close to one another. The more you will care to approach from your Heart center, the connections that you share with the one that is next to you, together you both will be allowing to build networks that has a place for each one and everyone. We are not powerless but we are powerful together. That duality that come together can hold many differences, but that duality can allow an experience for a mechanism between the two under conditions that both sides understand that they share. The Connection, mutual respect and care, compassion with a sense of generosity to generations to come. Inner satisfaction comes from the knowing that the other one, the one next to you is moving with ease and calm, base on your positive actions that providing that neighbor to knows no fear and has no need for running.

By taking the time to learn to know yourself, to understand yourself better, to hold positive connection with yourself, you are becoming capable to have the tolerance for yourself and as a result the tolerance for the other as well. Like that, as you look from what you value and love about yourself, and find the similarity with the other, the resemblance to the other, the common ground you both share, you are able more to maintain your inner peace, and more important, that personal inner peace which you hold enables inner peace with the neighbor. You both moves from a free place. Inner peace is your choice of olive branch as a bridge to reach to the other, while unconditional Love is your choice of weapon. Time is at your hand to let you know that nothing is lost, nothing is waist, nothing is gone, and the opportunity is always presented, being offer to you to see the good, the connection that can possibly come. The practice of inner peace enables you to send peace and to welcome the other. Stay humble about your achievements, and like that you maintain an open love letter with humanity, and your internal journey gain the stamp for that letter.