1.You know that you simply had it wrong.
2.Then clearly it was not meant to be.
3.It is time to give up.
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We all have been facing rejection in different aspects of our life and the important thing was that we all were able at one point to move on, and in some ways created a better immune system to survive that. Not all rejections are a true ones. For example if your catering business specialize in meat and there is a big production that you would like to offer your services but they refuse to take you only to learn after that they were looking for someone that promote vegetarian and vegan food in their menu. Or you are applying for a job which you didn’t get due to the fact that you are a family person and the company is looking for someone that is single and can travel without straggling to handle their personal life. When rejection happen, one need to be objective and to look at all the parameters and criteria’s that are taken to a consideration in this kind of result. It is not about the self impression that you took the effort to make and didn’t succeed, but it is about knowing to honor who you are and recognizing for yourself your self worth in an honest way.
Knowing to handle any rejection in life providing you the skills to free yourself from your ego, as the ego will only confuse you to defense your hurt self, instead of understanding clearly what you really need to do without even having a place for your ego to detour you from the original direction you intended to have. That can be also that in some ways the rejection have waken up your alter ego, bringing the opposite personality of who you are, just so you can force your way over, and might bring some type of temporary solution but the end result will become something far different from your original plan. This is the place where you know that your first move facing this situation is to stay grounded and not becoming reactive
Another kind of rejection is avoiding from doing just because of fear of rejection. Someone can be working in a place that has all the good benefits, however not happy at all in this working environment for their own reasons. Having the thought of taking the steps and looking for something new, might bring the thought of that it wont work, that you will be rejected and so on. This is where your ego just took ownership of your self confidence and block the view of your positive thinking to believe in yourself. Make sure that you are not avoiding opportunities in your life simply because of that fear.
Ask yourself what is it that I see in my self when there is an un expected rejection? Where is your self awareness come to use in this important moment and how do you care to provide yourself with compassion to infuse the self belief instead of false self doubt or restless ego. This is the valuable moment where self-love need to be provided just so you will not let yourself go, and keep your true self strong and humble with open pure Heart to believe in yourself. This is the place where your personal trust in yourself comes to test and not leading yourself to trust others which most likely don’t really know much about who you are at all.