1.Always has an answer.
2.Make you face the big picture eventually.
3.Best to ignore what it create for you.
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For each one there is a time in life that certain connections or relationships breaking up and how each one handle them can provide or can take so much even when time have past and there is no way to go back. Seek personal awareness to identify why is it that you are still dragging something from the past which cannot be recognize with a solution or able to process a correction and the ability to move forward with your life. In some cases it takes personal bravery and courage to provide and to give answers to yourself regarding why you are still holding deep emotions towards past negative events? This is when personal forgiveness need to kick in and to be more easy with yourself, instead of self judgment which has no benefit or no good use after a certain time. What is it that your feelings are holding and not willing to let go? Understand for yourself the thought process that brings you back again and again to be in that loopholes instead of seeing beyond that, to see how many other great opportunities would provide you a nourish and healthy life to live. Don’t undervalue yourself because of some self perspective on how you have handled the relationship. Time to take those lemons and to make a good Limonchello. There is no need for you to become addicted to your own pain, but instead manifest this energy for better creative things that you are so capable of and so good at. Surrender to your Strong good qualities, and don’t get lost by someone else delusion. Nourish yourself before you knew that other person and have this kind of emotional relationship, before the time you have opened yourself, even your Heart to that individual to be hurt by, so deeply. Nourish that inner person that was free. Don’t be afraid to harness your heart with the leadership personality that is within you to gain and recognize the opportunities for new healthy positive relationship with the one that will recognize your beautiful levels, without underestimate who you are.
In this personal time it is important also to let your inner child enjoy some fun time without any misconception to prevent your inner child from finding your inner peace through moments of fantasy. That inner child has the space to play its healthy role also when it comes to support your wounded pain from relationship and the direction will take you first back to find once again your pure loving Heart and from there the direction to find new healthy connections and healthy friendships in different levels.
Give attention for providing different acts of kindness towards various circles of your present life, some from past, present as well as towards those that you don’t know much about. Practice of selfless kindness during this kind of personal heart break only remove yourself from seeing your pain or blocking yourself, but doing act of kindness just to be reminded how deep your value for others is important and has a meaning in so many aspects. Let the sun shine on you, keep doing your best and see your personal transformation crafting your life and creating a wonderful place to keep growing.
There is more to be discover, so keep pushing forward and harder, just like with a canoe, you cannot control the current, but you can do your best to maintain the direction while remembering never trying to CONTROL the direction. Life can goes wrong and in some events you can forget yourself or losing yourself, but if you can find the way to provide yourself some positive self love, then you can have your personal anchor to create something sweet from the bitter reality that you are involve with.
