Pointing out your finger on someone : (Choose yours)

1.Dosen’t mean you act in the right way.

2.So that person will take the responsibility.

3.Removing you from any responsibility.

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There is a behavior which we all have been before, where you point out your finger on someone not in a good way, and having that pointed finger aiming toward that individual because of certain action. It might be that it can have a good reason, but in most times you are not realizing how there can be a better way to handle the matter in front of you, and less action with the judgmental behavior toward that person. When you are pointing out your finger on someone, look and see for yourself how many fingers are pointing back to you from your hand? four fingers are pointing back to you. This type of action hold in many of the times the personal ego that drive you to prove the other person wrong doing, instead of handling the situation with open hands which can lead to invite an understanding by both sides and shaking the hands of each other.  When you rush to judge you need to understand how you show your bigger unbalanced behavior that you hold. By rushing to point your finger, your other fingers show you how much you are ignoring your responsibility which might be the good solution for both parties. With the immediate intention to point finger, it will be also a good moment to reflect on your self if there is something which in the other person wrong doing it is actually something which is also in you. You know people around you who they will sit together for a dinner and all they can do is to gossip and talk about other people’s life only so their actions of wrong doing will not become visible,  or at least that what they want to believe. Gossip is just as point one finger at someone while avoiding the other four that reflects on you.  Do your best from avoiding acting like that, and find from your Heart center in any kind of hard situation that you are facing with someone, to use your voice with compassion and understanding, with attitude for forgiveness and opportunity for repent. Those four fingers need to be a mirror for you to realize and see that you can handle in a better way the situation. There is away to contribute your opinion in a positive spiritual beneficial way for both side, that by tolerance towards the other you can create a better world to live in and to live with. On the same way, when you understand the meaning of giving unconditionally space for positive communication, then you allow the other side to act with care instead of reacting. Just because you feel to act like that by pointing your finger it is time to change this from within and collect positive solutions for any situation that ask you to address someone wrong doing, and then, it is you the bigger recipient who receives more than you knew and create something that constantly grows for you and many others to learn from. This is how you work with your alchemist and the positive vibrations of law of attraction to change the energy which you become attach to from a place of positive actions. Trust your self that you can always act with kindness, or better to walk away without the need to behave like that. This change of behavior will open for you the door to be the peacemaker in moments of your ability to create a better result for both sides.