1.Self honesty with no shame, guilt or judgment.
2.Its all about me me me.
3.How you are been approve by others.
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The world that we all live in mix by the influence media, wrong images ways of society, certain cultures behavior that create pressure around them, different social media channels, and all that try to dictate how you should look, what appearance you should have, what is “cool” to do, how to live your life, all that and more most of the time doesn’t even close to the inner self belief of what you think is good, fit for you, benefit you and supporting your growth in the physical, mental and spiritual level or your Chakra system. When you are giving in to all the outside terms, you are letting your self-confidence go and not insecure in your own true self-will for what is true, fit, right and good for you. After all, what’s good for one person not necessary good for you or even can be the right thing for you. After you have a level of self-acceptance for who you are, at this moment, your ability to have self-confidence with your personal truth and to decide for yourself how to develop your self-confidence in a healthy way. Self-confidence has nothing to do with the ego, even though many not only confuse but using their ego to hide their lack of self-confidence and not realizing how arrogant they are. You should not allow your ego to stand and hide something which you are not, due to your flaws, but has a better idea than anyone else where you can lead your own life, able to take the actions to correct what is needed not because that it is wrong but more because of how it will positively impact your life. Self-confidence has a direct connection with the house that you grow up in and provide or prevent you with that. As you take more steps by your way to connect and communicate with the world the weight of the early stage of your childhood will be the main part that will keep drawing the line of your self-confidence. As you grow up and starting to know yourself better, it is in your ability to take a positive control and to boost up your self-confidence. Each one of us need this positive boost from time to time and this can only come from inside and to secure that with assurance for your personal security with certainty and positive conviction while having a better trust about yourself. Good way to understand for yourself about your self-confidence is to reflect of the way you think about yourself in the past week, how you have act or react during the past week and recognizing your personal expectation from yourself during the past week. It is not how loud your voice, your position at work, not what others think about you. If you come to an understanding that all this doesn’t really make you happy then you know that you need to address with yourself the personal list of what preventing you from having a self-confidence. Just like building a muscle the same with self-confidence require your work to support your self-worth in a positive way from the place of holding your inner-peace in order to supply you the pure correct actions to take. Self-confidence will provide you with your freedom to lead your life in a standard way that fit you and maintain you standing solid and grounded from within body, mind, soul and energetic system.