1.Provide you the opposite results.
2.Make you feel belong.
3.Create peace in some situations.
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How often do you find yourself in a situation with someone where you do something that you only think will bring you closer with them, only to find out later that it gave you the wrong results. When you choose to do for others something, only to be approve by, accept by, acknowledge by, you actually removing yourself from your true self in most cases. You might find yourself recognizing that you are a people pleasure and only distancing from yourself by doing so. You should give attention to the hidden intention you have with yourself when acting to please others. If it has an intention which is not pure, honest or in relation with the doing, but has something different from the pure purpose of the result then you create a conflict of the energy that should be manifest from this activity. Doing to please others, when it is with a different intention from the act, results with self suffering and standing alone or more isolated then you were before. To say the lease, you Root Chakra being force to move in the opposite direction for where it intend to lead your life. Your Sacral Chakra looses passion with your life. The Solar Plexus area hold a bigger conflict of emotions that can keep build and build within you which will create less confidence about yourself. Your Heart Chakra starts to be detach from self nurturing your whole self because you are falling into a never ending battle with your personal needs, emotions or feelings, so you can keep pleasing others. Your Throat Chakra looses her true voice to communicate mainly with yourself, the ability to express your self-love and therefor the ability to communicate coherent with everyone around you. All that make you not to be able to see the reality as it is, but holding on to an imaginary hope because of what you are hoping can be by pleasing others. Re-gain back your voice from your Heart place only to understand better how you can offer to do and to act with the positive good intentions that are in align with the actions. If you don’t have the confidence with yourself, see why is that and what you need to do to have your self-confidence back at your reach. Drop any self-judgment, you are enough and good enough so you can provide your time, work, effort and any doing from a selfless place or just to make sure that the job will be done, simple as that, instead of draining your energy to please others. Honor and value your time, otherwise you will let others use it in the wrong way and eventually you will stand alone. Make sure that every morning you put the priorities of your day in the wright order and you don’t move from fear or self-doubt. You can defiantly do for others, help others, provide for others when the desire is not just to please them.